It’s actually quite easy. Are you still practicing on the palm of your hand or on your arm?
Get over it.
Stop acting like you are in grade school and go out and get a girl. I don’t care if she’s ugly or what – you just need someone to practice on. Do you have a friend who is a girl that won’t mind kissing you? This is how a lot of people learn how to kiss. They end up kissing one of their good friends of the opposite sex.
You might end up slobbering a lot the first time you kiss a girl, which is normal. There is no reason to be embarrassed, but, at the same time, it is impossible to not become embarrassed. This is almost guaranteed to happen if you have braces or some other form of orthodontia in your mouth. Don’t go into your kiss thinking about it too much. The best thing you can do is just go with the flow and hope for the best. Hopefully you are younger and not like a forty year old virgin experiencing his first kiss.
The kissing experience is supposed to be an enjoyable experience, not one to stress over. The kissing experience is more than kissing itself. It is a sexual experience that allows you to not just feel the lips of a woman, but the entire body of a woman. A real kiss – an affectionate kiss – usually involves more than just the lips. It’s about how you touch her, where you touch her and how hard you press yourself into her. Sometimes this is known as making out, but I like to keep the term known as kissing. The main difference between kissing and making out is the presence, or lack of presence, of the tongue.
How to Start Out
Before kissing the girl, start out by coming in close to her. Put your hands on the small of her back and look into her eyes and engage in some whispering conversation. This will build up the sexual tension between the two of you and prime both of you for what is to come. Kissing is more than just kissing. It’s an entire act that, like I said, involves more than just the lips. Yes, the lips are what make kissing possible, but the body is what makes the kissing experience enjoyable or just average,
Start out grabbing the small of her back. Then, rub your hands up and down her back. Again, you are priming her up, per say. Before you touch your lips against hers, stroke her hair and then cup your hand around the back of her neck. Pull her into you. Kiss her lightly at first and then kiss her harder and harder until your tongues naturally start to touch. Your tongues don’t necessarily have to become involved in the act of kissing though. Some girls like to leave the tongue out for good or until later on in the relationship (or night, depending on what kind of relationship the two of you have).
Continue to use your hands and massage her hair and back. Once the kissing becomes more intense, put your hands on her hips. If the moment is right, gently brush you hand across her ass. If she likes that or doesn’t move your hand away, continue to slightly grab her ass. If she likes it she may make a low sound. Just be assertive to what turns her on and what doesn’t turn her on.
How to End it
This differs for everyone. You can end your kiss with, “Wow, that was really good,” or you can end the kiss by saying something like, “Do you want to go to my place.” Again, it depends what you’re looking for. If no tongue was involved and she brushed your hand away when you tried to grab her ass, I would stick with the former comment over the latter. If she doesn’t want you cupping her ass, she probably doesn’t want you in her bed touching her bare ass. Some girls like to take things slowly so don’t get too discouraged if you get shooed away from her ass or are denied the tongue. Just keep kissing.
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