What is an AFC?

An AFC is a guy who occasionally gets lucky. He doesn’t have enough self-confidence in himself to attract women on a frequent basis. He might have enough balls to approach a girl (only just might), but that is as far as he can go – the approach. After his approach he might fumble for words, create dry conversation or just appear awkward. In the presence of an attractive girl, an AFC isn’t confident in his personality that makes him unique. He goes into panic mode. Maybe his hands turn cold; maybe he stutters, blushes or puts on an awkward, artificial air of confidence that is obviously fake that makes him unfavorable to an attractive woman. To put it into fewer and simpler words, an AFC doesn’t get laid enough, hence his frustration.

An Example of an AFC

My friend serves as an excellent example. Sometimes I am embarrassed to call him my friend because of his situation. My friend use to be anything but an AFC. At any point in time, he would either have an attractive girlfriend or be fooling around with a hot piece of ass. They were usually hipster, but hot nonetheless. I don’t know what happened to him.

We were college roommates for more than half of our college career. I guess I started noticing changes in his behavior around women during our junior year. I was an engineering major turned fictional writing major and he stuck with engineering. The best theory I have for his AFC behavior, which compounded daily, is the technicality of his major. I know this can’t be the only reason because there are software engineering majors (a much for technical major than my friend’s mechanical engineering major) that have more game than him. But, it’s the best theory I have.

Here is why he is an AFC: 1) He, a good looking guy, settled for an ugly girlfriend – a pale, ghoulish figure with spots of acne. She is judgmental, has a dry sense of humor and, what pisses me off the most, always seems to be offended by all of my actions and utterances. 2) He drives a motorcycle to make up for his lack of self-confidence. If it weren’t so comical the way he revved his engine and attempted to take on an aura of badassery it would be sad. 3) He gave up chasing attractive girls and settled for less – far, far less.

How to Point out an AFC

I have a knack for identifying AFCs because I was around a lot of them in college. My aforementioned friend would always bring around his own friends who had as little self-confidence as him. When we would have parties at our house on campus, his friends would always be socially awkward around the attractive girls that came. The hotter the girls were, the more pathetic their attempts became. For example, while playing beer bong, the AFC would try too hard to form a bond with the girl he was playing with. If the girl made a cup, he might put his arm around the girl’s shoulder, but in a way he was unsure of that, consequently, made the girl unsure of him.

You can also spot an AFC by observing the way guys talk to women. If the guy is smiling or laughing too much at common things a girl says that aren’t funny, the guy is an AFC. He feels the need to laugh to make her attracted to him when, in reality, the girl (if she is attractive and confident) is thinking, “Why is this guy laughing and smiling at everything I say?”

Simple Steps to Take if You’re an AFC and Want to Change

1. Find a way to restore your confidence. Acknowledge that you lost some along the way and you need to regain it.
2. Don’t put girls on a pedestal. In other words, don’t look at girls in an “all or nothing” way. Just enjoy yourself and see what happens
3. If you have a girlfriend who you aren’t attracted to, dump her. Ask yourself why you are dating her. Is it for the right reasons?
4. Think of all of the perks of not being an AFC! This means no more getting put in the friends zone and actually being able to romantically engage with women!

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