Research shows that women follow a certain pattern when they communicate. If you are a man, you should understand and follow that pattern when talking with a woman.
Here are some speech patterns used by women. These patterns inferred based on brain scans of women in part to show blood flow and brain function.
1. Involve Yourself In Discussion
Do not wait until you get a turn to speak. A Women’s brain can speak and listen simultaneously. Therefore it is not surprising that women are often seen talking together. The reason is, because they are able to do so.
If you’re just waiting for your turn to speak, you will never get a turn. If you are not actively engaged in conversation with a woman, you will be judged as being less willing or less critical.
2. Change your face expression when Listening
Facial expressions of a woman showing her emotions. Therefore, when you speak, imitate expressions and gestures, to create a more intimate relationship. Do not do this to a man!
3. Provide information that is personal and involve yourself emotionally
The female brain is set to be able to read other people’s emotions and is able to assess the relationships between people. Therefore, you may reveal to woman information about you and your family, and personal feelings about various things. This, in the woman’s mind, will build trust and will develop your relationship.
4. Use Indirect Sentences
Unlike the men, women generally use a longer sentence, which implies a feeling or emotion about things. Therefore, when talking to women, do not directly mention the subject matter. Do not be concerned about an immediate solution to a problem that will bring an end to the conversation. Think of a conversation as going the “scenic route” instead of taking a shortcut to get there the quickest possible way.
Psychological advice that men should head is not to use “closed questions”; basically that means questions that can only be answered by as “yes” or “no”
Instead of asking “did you like the movie” ask, “What was your favourite part of the movie?”
Get the girl talking and then the conversation will start to flow. This is a great way to consciously change the way you talk to girls in order to have better conversations. Start on a girl you are not intimidated by then once you have successfully struck up good conversations, and then try it on the girl of your dreams.
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