This will be your guide, and your simple easy success to learning how to flirt with women. This will cover some very basic rules to some more advanced techniques. It doesn’t matter if you are playing the field of women like Will Smith or if you’re a wizard from the caves of Aktonan, or if you’re young or old, everyone can use advice in this area.
The Female Sex
Let’s begin with a quick lesson about females. They are nothing like males, in their opinion they are the superior sex, first thing you should learn that in a lot of ways this is true I’ll explain why now,
From the young age women/girls are brought up on how to look pretty, how to tease and how to attract by simply standing in the same room saying nothing. Men/Boys however grow up with none of this, in terms of grooming were taught to spray our hairy zones, brush our pearly whites and comb our hair, we get nothing else, it’s from this point on that it’s up to the man to naturally go out and learn everything by himself.
It’s for this reason that females should be treated with the utmost respect as they decide who is chosen to even stand beside them, no male makes this choice; sorry it’s just life. Anyway back on subject, the Female sex is extremely complex and since I’m male I’ll never write anything even scratching the real Female psychology.
They are filled with more emotions than any man could have, another thing to note here is that everything is a big deal in possibility. Guys see things in an order of importance, women however are very different. Even you saying the smallest thing like ‘That dress looks pretty” this is probably the biggest key to flirting with any women if you want success.
Pickup Lines
Whoever created these was playing the biggest practical joke on the Male sex in creation. Pickup lines very rarely work and sound horrible unless you master them to perfection, I’ve seen newspapers say things like ‘Did you fall from heaven, you’re an angel’ as an introduction, that’s horrible, it clearly instantly sends a signal that your cheap and non-creative. Don’t use them or at least think of something extremely creative.
Body Language
Every article talks about this, simply due to the fact it’s very important. If you have your head down talking to them then your shy, now some women might pity you but there very unlikely to flirt or date you. Keep your head up and yourself relaxed, straight but most importantly natural, talk to them as if you’re talking to your best friend not a demon that will rip you apart.
If you show that you’re confident and just out for a good time, 
but most of all being honest through your body language then one of two things will happen, 1. You’ll have great success or 2. You’ll get a simple but well intentioned, sorry you’re not my type or I’m just not interested, generally it’ll be kept between the two of you as a mutual respect for not being a slime ball.
Talking To Females
Okay so you have approached her with confidence in your heart and your body relaxed, you’re doing great so far! Now it comes to opening your little mouth and talking to them using ‘vocal communication’, to start of any conversation it’s best to go with a friend or join the group she’s talking with, follow the situations below to know how to play them out:
Talking In A Group – If say… its five people or so and it’s a general debate, then join it, and offer your opinion, but before you do it listen to her immensely, find out what she thinks or even more importantly ask her what her views are.
This will tell her you’re showing a good interest in her specifically; once she delivers her opinion your best chance is to share yours but if you honestly disagree with her then tell her that you do but that you can understand where she’s coming from. This way she will know you’re not just going to submit to anything but you’re someone who she can have a good conversation with
Single Conversation –
For example, if she’s in a bar watching the TV then just ask what she’s watching. From there, just discuss what’s on the Television until you feel comfortable enough to ask her something such as… ‘I’ve seem you about; I’m John, what’s your name?’ Once you’re on a first name basis just talk about general topics and carry it from there.
Getting Her Number
A crucial step to having any form of future relationship is the acquiring of her mobile/cell phone number. It depends on the situation, if you know she’s going to be where you are such as work, college or school then you don’t have to rush it, just get to know her and some day mention that you’ll text her later about it, if she says ‘ Do you have my number? ‘or ‘ You don’t have my number ! ‘Then reply something similar to ‘Oh yeah (laugh)’ an
d go from there.
If she’s going to be in a place that you don’t know if she’ll return or you won’t such as a bar or night club then before she leaves, ask if she will be here often, if she will just follow the above and meet her there again, if she won’t then simply ask, ‘Mind if I get your number?
Conclusion
This concludes the small but simple effective way of flirting with any woman/girl. Hopefully it has enlightened you ever so slightly as to how to flirt with the opposite sex in a graceful, respectful but goal-assured manner.
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