Girls like guys and we are usually open to people coming up and talking to us while standing in line or at the supermart or in the bookstore. There are times when we want to left alone though, and this is not hard to figure out. Read her body language; is it closed, hunched, not looking at you or absorbed? Then you don’t want to go up to her and talk about the weather, that is annoying.
But if a girl is simply distracted, or makes eye contact and smiles, gives you a nod, or is just close enough for you to simply mumble and she can hear, than give it a shot. Comment on something that is in front of the both of you – in a grocery store, talk about how difficult it is to make up your mind about what to have for dinner. Or, if you are a gourmet cook, offer a suggestion – not in a i-will-give-you-instructions way, just as an ice breaker. Or if you are at a bookstore, comment on the authors, genre, cover of the books, and ask if she has read some other similar author. 
What if you meet the love of your life at a park or at a game though? In a crowded, loud, crazy environment, you want to use a different technique. Be bold, be brave, be the guy who looks her in the eye, check her out, but not in a slimy way, more of in an appreciative way. Be courteous, open the door, pull out her chair. Don’t be overly serious about much, and don’t take things too much to heart – it is the first time you guys are talking and the best thing is to just go with the flow. You are bound to step on a couple of toes but laugh it off, apologize, clarify, and don’t always ask permission.
I don’t mean physically at all. I mean, don’t always gauge her reaction – part of the fun is your having fun too, and the smile you give when you are is more addictive than if you were to second guess yourself a lot.
Good eye contact, sometimes a firm handshake – that she initiates- similar body languages, poses, intelligent, curious questions that show you are really interested all are points she will appreciate.
There are some things she will not : bad breath, standing way too close, touching her without permission, dominating the conversation about you or looking at other people while talking to her are rude turn-offs.
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