There are two basic approaches you can take when asking a girl out. There is the slow approach and the fast approach. The slow approach is one that takes time and encourages you to get to know the girl before you actually ask her out.
The fast approach is an aggressive one that doesn’t require you to get to know the girl. Each approach stands for different things and we will exam those things.
But, before we move on, I should say, if you are looking for a relationship it is best to go with the slow approach and if you are just looking to get laid it is best to go with the fast approach. Why spend all the time in asking a girl out if you just want to bang her?
It doesn’t make sense. Don’t feel obligated to take the slow approach if your intentions are strictly sexual.
The Slow Approach
The slow approach requires you, like said, to get to know the girl before you ask her out. You’ll want to show her who you are while remaining confident in your personality. She will either like you or not, but it is always wise to remain true to yourself.
This way, the girl knows who you really are and won’t be caught off guard if, by chance, you start dating. She won’t be able to say, “You acted that way and now you are acting this way. Did you just want to get in my pants?”
The slow approach allows you to appreciate the girl for who she is – not just a piece of ass. Maybe you like this girl enough to make a long lasting relationship with her. The slow approach will tell you if she wants the same. You have to be assertive to the signs though.
How does she react when you touch her or flirt with her or tell her something secretive about yourself? Make sure you are aware enough to recognize these things as they are very important.
This kind of approach is for those who appreciate women and their personalities. They want to get to know the girl on a personal level and not just a sexual one. I’m not saying one is better than the other; they are just simply different and some people are looking for things other people aren’t looking for. The slow approach will allow you to win her heart while the fast approach will allow you solely to win her bed.
The Fast Approach
This approach can be done in a day and without a lot of effort. All you have to do is appear confident for a few minutes even if you are not really confident. Remember, the fast approach is for you if you are just looking for a quick date and a quick lay.
You don’t have to put that much time into it because the relationship is not going to take up that much time. So, how do you go about asking a girl out in an aggressive way?
Well, you have to be witty, or appear to be witty. It’s all about appearances and not really about who you actually are when you are taking on the aggressive approach. Feign confidence and wit if you have to. Whatever it takes to get her on that date and then later into bed. You can be whoever you want to be even if that person you want to be is not you. It doesn’t matter in such circumstances. If she is quick enough to say “yes” to your offer one, she is desperate or two, she wants exactly what you want – a quick lay. Just hope it is the latter for your sake because desperation is a turn off. For guys and women on both ends.
The fast approach is one I use a lot. It requires spontaneity and aggressiveness. Don’t let her say “no.” You are only looking for the answer that you want. Don’t take anything else and don’t let her go until you get exactly what you want. Let her know that you are aggressive, strong and relentless. A lot of girls are turned on by this. You just have to hope she is one of those girls.
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